book review

Book Review: The Strange Ways of Providence in My Life by Krystyna Carmi

The Strange Ways of Providence In My Life: A Holocaust Survivor Story (World War 2)

Before I do my review, I have to put up this disclaimer: I received a copy of this book for a highly discounted price through Tomoson and the publisher. Any and all opinions expressed in this review are mine and mine alone. I received no financial compensation for this review. At the end of the review, I will include a links to Amazon for the paperback and Kindle version. Now, onto my review.

Book synopsis:

God looks after the orphans Happy childhood, horrors of war and miraculous rescue of the only child survivor from Obertyn.

Krystyna Carmi’s childhood was full of happy moments in the family house. Her childhood was filled with friends, both Polish and Ukrainian girls, that played games with her. She attended a Ukrainian school, participated in school celebrations; she lived a normal, everyday life. In her memoire, published after many years of silence, Krystyna Carmi shows the history of her family and her life.

The book contains more than 100 pictures, taken by Krystyna’s father, a professional photographer, and sent it to their family in Israel before the war.

Krystyna was gifted with an amazing memory and as such was able to recall the atmosphere of those days, describing in details the appearance of a household; and if that wasn’t enough, Krystyna Carmi writes about something very rare, the smells she remembered from childhood. Walking with her on the streets of pre-war Obertyn, we get to know the Jews, the Ukrainians, and the Poles and the social and material conditions of their lives, as well as their names and surnames. Krystyna Carmi paints a psychological portrait of these people; she writes about how they dressed, what they ate, what their attitude towards others was, and above all, towards God. She writes about things seemingly trivial, however when looking back, they are incredibly significant.

But the happy childhood did not last long. The first days of war brought overall fear and panic, the entrance of Red Army soldiers to Obertyn, the arrest of Polish patriots, liquidation of Jewish shops, the gradual growth into a more difficult reality of occupation, the Hungarian army in Obertyn, Jews murdered by Ukrainians in the local towns, incredible photos of the members of the Jewish community, drowning in the Dniester by Ukrainians.

However, the worst was still ahead of the Jewish community in Obertyn and her family. First, the Germans, then the Kołomyja ghetto. She was with her parents as well as her maternal and paternal grandfathers. The life conditions in which Obertyn Jews had to live are described in the poem Molasa ”” Ghetto Sweets; she shows in a fictile, detailed way, psychophysical suffering caused by hunger.

People died in the ghetto because of hunger and physical exhaustion; their bodies were collected on a platform. These deaths do not escape the attention of a sensitive and suffering girl, who years later will write a poem with the title In Remembrance of Innocently Suffering People of Different Ages and Sexes from Kołomyja Ghetto; a picture of the platform will stay in her memory forever. “The open mouth and eyes of these human corpses have been hunting me all my life.”

Then she returned from the ghetto with her parents, and escaped from Obertyn, following by her sisters’ death, which she described in a very suggestive way in her poems: Black Kamionka Forest. Part I Testimony and Black Kamionka Forest. Part II Curse). Her parents’ death, hiding, hunger, thirst, fear for life, then indifference as time goes by because life is hard. It would be easier to part with the world, but The Strange Ways of Providence in her Life has chosen for her to live, to be. This is how you could present in short, the content of Krystyna Carmi’s memoire.

The memoire are interspersed with the cover of Doctor Markus Willbach, a friend of the Sorger family to emphasize the authenticity of Krystyna Carmi’s (maiden name: Sorger) memories as the images, situations, and events witnessed by her as a little girl coincide with Doctor Willbach’s account.

My review:

This was not an easy book to read. I will repeat….not an easy book to read but it must be read.

The book started off with the author’s deliriously happy childhood. She had two big sisters, a father who worked hard to provide for his family, a mother who was fun loving and grandparents who were very involved in her life.

Then the war struck her village and everything changed. She was forced to live in the Obertyn ghetto, was starved, separated from her parents and lived in a small loft above a barn for the winter and then in a field of wheat (or was it rye???)…..where the peasants looked out for her. This all happened between 8-10 years old.

I had nightmares after reading that section of her autobiography. I couldn’t fathom B or Z (who were the ages the author was) seeing what she saw or living in the conditions she lived in at their ages.

I will say that there were heros in the book. The police officers who risked everything to try and save Krystyna’s parents and then Krystyna. The various farmers who took the family in and then took Krystyna in.

It takes a special kind of person to not only overcome something that horrendous but then to turn around and write a book to try and help people. The author is amazing!!!

The photography (that the author’s father did before his death) was fantastic. You could see how happy the family was.

Will I reccomend this book to family and friends? Yes but with fair warning that it is a very hard book to read with some very awful scenes in it. I do plan on having Z and B read this book as soon as they are emotionally mature enough. They need to. It is part of their heritage (BK is 1/2 Jewish). They also need to know that if something like this ever happens again (which I fear is going to happen with the Muslims), that they shouldn’t be sheeple and just stand by. They need to DO something.

Will I read this again? Yes, I will.

I am going to include a link that I have found to Obertyn and the genocide that happened there.


Now, onto the Amazon links that I promised. As always, prices on Amazon can and will change.

Kindle Unlimited (the yellow button that says “Read for Free”. Need a membership for that)

Kindle (The orange button that says “Buy now with 1-click)



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